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Love
What Does ‘Enough’ Sex Really Look Like in a Healthy Relationship?
Is once a week really the sweet spot? We asked experts to weigh in.
By Jenna Ryu
Here’s Where to Find the Best Audio Porn and Erotica
Whether you’re into sexy stories, masturbation tutorials, or straight-up moaning.
By Anna Borges and Jenni Miller
Yes, Sex Furniture Is a Thing—Here Are 33 Functional Options We Love
It could be just what you need to spice things up.
By Sarah Madaus and Gabrielle Kassel
Love
The Best Vibrators on Amazon That Reviewers Can't Stop Buzzing About
They'll ship quickly and definitely deliver.
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By Kristin Canning
How to Give a Mind-Blowingly Hot Prostate Massage
You can make the P-spot feel great from the inside or outside of your partner’s body.
By Zahra Thompson
I’ve Tested More Than 100 Wand Vibrators—But This One Is My All-Time Favorite
It won me over in minutes.By Gabrielle Kassel- Love
Your Guide to the Very Best Vibrators Out There
We've got options for all, whether you’re new to toys or just looking for something more fun.46 slidesBy Sarah Madaus and Gabrielle Kassel - Buzz worthy
15 Wand Vibrators That’ll Hit All the Right Spots
Try them on clits, nipples, penises, butts—anywhere you want to feel a nice buzz.16 slidesBy Malia Griggs and Jessica Kasparian 12 Strap-Ons That Are Great From Top to Bottom
Including beginner-friendly options and upgrades for experienced users.13 slidesBy Malia Griggs and Sara Coughlin10 Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles
According to experts and very pleased shoppers.11 slidesBy Jessica KasparianHow to Have Multiple Orgasms When One Just Isn’t Enough
It’s a marathon, not a sprint.By Zahra ThompsonThe Beginner’s Guide to Using a Vibrator
If you’re brand-new to this type of sex toy, here’s everything to know to have an amazing time.By Anna Borges and Amy Rose Spiegel- Love
33 Sex Toy Deals to Jump On Before Valentine’s Day
These are sales we can get down with.By Jessica Kasparian The Best Prime Day Sex Toy Deals to Shop Right Now
Toe-curling discounts on vibrators, butt plugs, strokers, and more.By Jessica Kasparian65 Prime Day Deals for All Your Wellness Needs
Save on comfy bedding, sex toys, fitness gear, and more.By Jessica Kasparian
9 Very Hot Non-Penetrative Sex Ideas
If you can’t—or don’t want to—get it in, we’ve got some moves that’ll still get you off.
By Erica Sloan
Hot mama
How to Feel Horny Again as a New Mom
Remember that you won’t be sexless and covered in spit-up forever.
By Kathleen Felton
Super Soaker
So You Want to Learn How to Squirt During Sex
A step-by-step guide to turning on the water works.
By Erica Sloan
17 Hot Ways to Stimulate Your Clit for an Amazing Orgasm
There’s so much more than your basic nub-rub to try.
By Erica Sloan
How to Try Edging, the Sex Technique That Takes Teasing to a Whole New Level
Drawing out the buildup to an orgasm can be incredibly hot.
By Erica Sloan
What to Do If IBS Is Shitting on Your Sex Life
GI symptoms always seem to show up at the worst possible times.
By Erica Sloan
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Sex Love
The Best Lubes for Smooth Sailing Alone or With a Partner
Loved by both experts and shoppers.
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By Malia Griggs and Sarah Felbin
What to Do If Dry Mouth During Sex Is Really Killing Your Vibe
If your teeth, tongue, and lips transform into the Sahara whenever you visit Pound Town, read this.
By Anna Borges
How to Have Great Sex If You Deal With Chronic Pain
It’s absolutely possible to make your body a source of pleasure.
By Erica Sloan
12 Tips for Having Better, More Intense Orgasms
If you’re looking to come so hard you forget your own name, read on.
By Zahra Thompson
Love
How to Get Really, Really Good at Kissing
Tips about form, technique, and all things tongue.
By Nikki Campo and Gigi Engle
What My First Time Having Sex After Giving Birth Felt Like
It absolutely took longer than six weeks to get back in the groove.
By Julia Ries
Halle Berry Said a Doctor Mistook Her Perimenopause for the ‘Worst Case of Herpes’ He’d Seen
It took a negative STI test for her symptoms to be taken seriously.
By Jenna Ryu
5 Ways to Make Oral Sex Feel Even Better If You Have a Vagina
Changing up your positions isn’t just for penetration.
By Reina Sultan
Here’s Exactly How to Use Lube for Wetter, Hotter, Better Sex
You probably aren’t applying nearly enough, for starters.
By Reina Sultan
Mind blowing
How to Get Out of Your Head During Sex So You Can Actually Enjoy It
Whether you’re wondering what your partner thinks of your body or worried that you’ll never come.
By Anna Borges
Why Do I Get Ridiculously Horny Around My Period?
Time to break out the sex towels.
By Ayana Underwood
Business etiquette
What Are the Rules for Talking About Your Sex Life With Friends?
Sharing dirty details can be fun (and healthy!) but it’s important to respect everyone’s boundaries.
By Carina Hsieh
Halle Berry Got Real About Sex During Menopause
The actor said things changed in the bedroom—and not in the fun, spicy way.
By Jenna Ryu
Exposure therapy
How to Really, Actually Feel Better Naked
Insecurity is normal, but at a certain point, it can keep you from enjoying life to the fullest.
By Carina Hsieh